We're headed home tomorrow after a wonderful holiday. Yesterday we had Christmas dinner with my daughter's friends, parents, and kids. They are very special people, many of them writers, artists, musicians and one doctor (!)
They remind me in a general way of my circle of friends in Hilo, who are very active in the arts and in community affairs. Of course my daughter and her contemporaries are too busy with work and kids, but they seem to do a great job of keeping their respective corners of the universe up and running while maintaining their participation in the many other activities that enrich their lives.
We will be returning tomorrow to Hilo and the endless saga of home maintenance in the tropics. We must paint the interior, since that has not been done, except for the kitchen, since we moved in. And the kitchen cabinets need touching up, too. Terry's cousin tells us that it has rained incessantly since we left. I'm hoping our friend who does occasional yard work for us has mowed the lawn and done some weeding. We're expecting three sets of house guests in the next two months. Oh, and we're coming back to the Bay Area and Seattle at the end of January, too.
One thing I have taken away from the experiences of the last weeks is that the older I get the more external matters concern me. This, I suspect, is exactly the opposite of what happens to most people as they age. I was very introspective as a young person and not especially ambitious, but now I just want to get out and do things. Time is of the essence!
One Big Yodel's Chantal posted a list of reads for the holiday, Five great books about life abroad, and I just finished one of them, Undress Me in the Temple of Heaven by Susan Jane Gilman. I laughed, I cried. Highly recommended. I'm now getting into Moonlight in Odessa by Janet Skeslien Charles. These are the stories of women who face up to unbelievably tough circumstances in the most resourceful ways and never, ever, lose their sense of humor. I feel, reading these books, that there is much common ground for us women here. I am tired of the dreary approach to womanhood that seems to have taken hold: that we are all a bunch of victims who can only hope for God's mercy. If that were so, the human race would never have survived!
It will take a couple of weeks for me to launch the new blog. I'm organizing it in my mind. Issues. Personalities. Interviews. Commentaries. Links. Nothing off the top of my head; perhaps one posting a week.
And I am still aglow at the mention on Naomi's blog, A Little Red Hen.
Here is the last Christmas picture: Decorations in San Juan, Puerto Rico Old Town.
